Letting Go Does NOT Have To Be A Bad Thing
by Tera Warner
Life IS beautiful. People ARE inherently good. AND some people have ways of being and chips on their shoulders that ultimately CAN drag you down. Keeping clear on YOUR vision for your life, YOUR purpose and objectives will help you be able to know when to let go a lot more easily.
When you’re wishy-washy about who you are, what you love and where you want to go in Life, then Life is gonna mold you and it will be much easier for you to become intimidated, insecure and hold yourself back rather than take the space you have the right to own in life.
- Do you know what you really want your life to look like?
- Do you feel clear on your contribution to life, to your community?
- Do you know the things that lift you up and partake in them regularly?
Until you get clear on you, it’s gonna be way too easy to blame someone else for you not getting your life, your goals and yourself on track.
And when you are on track, when you’re driven by your purpose and committed to living it, then the thrill of your adventure in life and the joys you have being on purpose and fully engaged are the reward for living. Not approval of others, the promise of companionship or anything else that would be found in someone else.
It’s when Life pulses through you, moves forward and contributes good things that you feel TRULY alive.
You will be able to let go of the relationships and conditions in life that do not serve you because the dream and vision of where you’re going and the game of getting there will have you on fire committed to moving up!
Don’t give your love to others because you expect it to be returned to you.
Give it because you have it to give and in giving, you bubble and spill like an ocean of delicious emotions. It WILL come back to you, it has no choice. The more you put out in the world, the more of it there is to bounce around and ripple back at you.
Whatever happens in the ties that bind you to the people in your life, stay open to loving them (even if from a distance) and as an individual, remain committed to the things that make you shine!
A final word from Alexander Graham Bell:
“When one door closes another door opens;
but we so often look so long and so regretfully
upon the closed door,
that we do not see the ones which open for us.”